Let’s talk about The Self-Trust System!

Hola Mis Amores!

Let’s talk about The Self-Trust System!

I have mentioned this before, and I know a lot of you have been asking questions about it.

So today I’m sharing what it is with you and how it can change your life!

Most of my clients are:

➡️ Women leaders

➡️ Coaches

➡️ Consultants

overall professionals and badasses in their industry…

…But they still find it hard to navigate through their feelings with ease.

I know this for sure because I’ve been through that too. 

And there were a lot of thoughts were going on in my mind.

The same thing my clients struggle with:

📍What does it really mean to believe in me? 

📍What does it mean to believe in my vision?

📍What does it mean to believe in my dreams? 

📍How do I go about taking action when it’s hard? 

It’s hard to do these things because they require Self-Trust at a deeper level. 

They require us to believe in ourselves with action and consistency.

… and we’re just not taught that, because we’re taught to trust in other people.

I’ve learned that self-trust is a muscle that you can strengthen over time.

And that’s why I curated  The Self-Trust System—a 12-week experience to help you believe in yourself, with consistency and with courage, and strengthen that muscle 💪.

Here’s what you’ll get:

✅ The opportunity to release your borrowed beliefs.

✅ The space you need to breathe and express yourself.

✅ The best way to set healthy boundaries and patterns.

✅How to embody your most authentic self shine.

… and so much more!

What I promise you is that you will get a space for you to Be, to breathe, to be vulnerable—it’s like unhooking your emotional bra 💆‍♀️.

I want you to have a system that you can lean on when triggering emotions show up, 

💎You can show up as the best version of yourself.

💎You can continue to live a life where you feel joy, where you feel enthusiastic, a life that you’re grateful to wake up to.

And if you’re ready to do the work, to unleash your authentic self,

I invite you to join me.

Right now, we got 3 spots open, and one of them is for you.

Claim your spot today in The Self-Trust System, and let’s get started!

💥The investment starts at $15,000, and payment plans are available💥

To Your Authenticity,

nory

Hasta Luego!

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TRANSCRIPT

Hola mis amores! I’m Nory and I am the self-trust catalyst for women leaders, consultants, and coaches that are dominating the industry with ease, by navigating their feelings and their emotions with joy. 

So today, I actually wanted to take some time and talk to y’all about what is the self-trust system. Y’all been hearing me talking about it and you have had questions about it. And I figured this is a really good opportunity for me to share with you, what the self-trust system is all about, and how can it support you, and if you’re a good fit for it. So let’s jump in, into that, into all of that. 

The self-trust system is essentially a 12-week experience that I have curated for women leaders, coaches, and consultants that are really looking to navigate their emotions with ease, navigate their feelings with ease. This is the result of years of work that I’ve done with my clients that have landed me in a place where I’m really clear about what it takes to trust yourself, what it takes to believe in yourself, with consistency and with courage. 

Because one thing we don’t realize is that it takes courage to believe in ourselves. It takes courage to bet on ourselves. It takes courage to do the thing that we desire to do when it requires going against the norm, when it requires going against what other people want us to do, or what other people expect us to do. 

And what the self-trust system is, it gives you a process so that you are equipped with the tools that you’ll need when you want to believe in yourself, when you want to trust yourself, when you want to strengthen that muscle and it feels uncomfortable. This is something that I’m very passionate about because I know firsthand how difficult it can be to believe in you. I know firsthand how challenging it can be to live the life you envision for yourself, when it means going against what you’ve been taught, when it means going against what other people expect you to do, when it means going against what feels “safe.” 

Self-trust is a muscle. It is a muscle that you can strengthen over time. And the more you strengthen this muscle, the better you are at dealing and navigating the emotions that are going to come out of you, taking the time to trust yourself, having the courage to believe in yourself. 

And it can be difficult for us to do that because we have been taught to trust in other people, we have been taught to believe in other people, but when it’s time to believe in ourselves with action and consistency, we ball into a corner out of fear that things may not go right, out of fear that things may not go our way and to help combat that, in my life I’ve gone through this long period of time where I have unpacked well, what does it really mean to believe in me? What does it mean to believe in my vision? What does it mean to believe in my dreams? And how do I go about taking action when it’s hard? 

Because sometimes it’s just hard to do the thing you desire. It means doing things you haven’t done before, it means showing up in ways you may not have shown up before, and that can be really difficult for you. And I know because it’s also difficult for my clients. And these are women that are like badasses in their industries, these are women that are, have amazing clients themselves, these are women that are achieving success and experiencing success, and they’re still struggling with believing in themselves. 

They still have that uncomfortable feeling in their bodies when it’s time to pitch a client, when it’s time to ask for a promotion, when it’s time to raise their prices, when it’s time to end relationships. I’m talking about romantic relationships and platonic relationships. They still have a difficult time. 

And we think that this is gonna stop at a certain point and we don’t realize that it won’t. I know I’m here to be the one to tell you that the journey of you believing in yourself, trusting yourself, of strengthening that muscle is the journey of a lifetime. 

And for the women that I work with, these are women that are the “go-to” person. They are the women that people call when something is not going right, they are the women that are the fixers, they are the people-pleasers, they are the ones that are always putting other people above their needs, because they have learned that that’s how they show their love, that’s how they show their appreciation. 

And they get to a point in their lives when they realize I am pouring out of an empty cup and I’m exhausted, and I am done doing this. And I don’t know how to stop doing this. And they want to desperately have a path to take them out of this way so that they can get to the life they desire, so that they can put themselves first without feeling guilty, without feeling shame, and without concerning themselves with what people think about them. 

Because we’ve been taught to really care about what people think about us. And even these women that I work with, these leaders, these consultants, these coaches, these powerhouses, because the women that are in my space are powerhouses, they are wondering, why am I still struggling with this? Why am I still challenged by these ideas and these beliefs that I need people to coastline me? That I need people to give me permission? 

The reality is, these are borrowed beliefs. You learn at a certain point in your life that people needed to approve of you. And especially if you grew up in a household where you didn’t feel you get the attention you desire, which tends to be most of us in some cases, it can be really difficult for you to break out of those beliefs and to release those borrowed beliefs. 

So the self-trust system is a path that gives you the tools that you need to support you in this lifelong journey. What I walk through during these 12 weeks, it gives you the opportunity to release those borrowed beliefs, to unlock and unblock anything that’s keeping you from allowing your most authentic self to shine. 

And the women that go through this experience, they go through a huge transformation. Since these women are leaders, since they are like powerhouses, they rarely feel like they have the space, to be, to breathe, to be vulnerable, to express how they’re challenged, to express the difficulties they’re experiencing. They feel like they barely have a chance to not have it together. 

And for my ladies watching, it’s like unhooking your bra at the end of the day. You know, that relaxing feeling of like, that exhale y’all know what I’m talking about. Well, the women I work with rarely feel like they have a place where they can unhook their emotional bra, and what the self-trust system does is give them a space to do exactly that. 

It gives them a space where they don’t have to pretend that they are okay with people-pleasing, they don’t have to pretend that they are okay with shrinking themselves. They don’t have to pretend that they are okay with letting other people guide their lives. 

How many of us wish we had a space where we could do exactly that? Where we can unhook our emotional bra and give ourselves that opportunity to exhale without being afraid of being judged? Without being afraid of being treated differently? 

And that’s really what the self-trust system is. It is a 12-week experience that I’ve curated for my clients. During those 12 weeks, we spend a lot of time unpacking, what has gotten you to the point where you are. We talk about setting healthy boundaries, we talk about setting healthy patterns. We look at our patterns with compassion and with grace, because part of growing and healing is accepting who we are, where we are. We have a space where you feel like it is okay to be you. It is okay to feel how you’re feeling, it is okay to acknowledge those emotions so that you can be in a space to move beyond those emotions. 

And during the time we spend together, we unearth some stuff. So this is not a space for someone who’s not looking to do the work because we gonna do the work and the work will feel uncomfortable. But I want you to know, as you go through this process, my promise to you is that I will create an environment for you where that discomfort will be a lot easier to navigate. 

Because at the end of the day, we all deal with emotions, and emotions don’t just show up in romantic relationships or with friends, they show up at work, they show up in your business, they show up when you’re in the streets or the supermarket. They show up when you’re driving your car and you experience road rage. 

And when you are able to navigate your emotions with ease, when you are able to respond to triggers with ease, your life transforms. Because there’s only one person that you can control, and that’s you. You can’t control your kids, you can’t control your clients, you can’t control your boss. You can’t control anyone else besides you, besides the thoughts that come into your mind, besides how you respond to the thoughts that come into your mind and how you show up when that happens. 

And when you are able to do that, when you’re able to have a system, a process to respond to those triggering emotions, when you’re able to release those emotions of people-pleasing and show up for yourself, even when it feels hard, then you trust yourself, you strengthen that muscle of self-trust. 

And what starts to happen when you begin to trust yourself, what my clients begin to see, is that when they begin to trust themselves, they begin to keep their word to themselves, about themselves, they begin to honor their boundaries, they begin to set clear boundaries with people that they love, they begin to learn how to receive. 

Because a lot of us don’t know how to receive y’all, especially if you’re the person that’s used to giving all the time, you’ve created such a relationship with the idea of giving that it defines you to a certain extent. So it can be hard to receive when it is your time to receive, when that has been you. But when you exit out of that mindset, your confidence skyrockets. 

You feel more confident, not because of other people, but because of you. Because you know what you are capable of because you keep your word to yourself, because you finish what you start, because you feel like you’re living the life that you’ve envisioned for yourself. 

And then, you become a magnet for abundance. That’s the reason why my clients make so much money, the reason why their businesses are flourishing, and you see me posting about their 70K months or one of them is gonna have a 100K month pretty soon. And they get to release and really get contracts while setting healthy boundaries. The reason why they’re able to do that is that they have the courage to put themselves first. 

They have the courage to honor their intuitive guidance. Too many of us are living our lives, following other people’s guidance, and those people don’t even know where their guidance is from. Those people didn’t even know who told them to do that in the first place. And here we are operating our lives from borrowed beliefs, being upset that we’re not living the life that we desire. 

The women that I work with are ready to change that. And the self-trust system is their map to do that, is what gives them a process so that when it’s time to respond to triggering emotions, they are not reacting. They are not moving into old patterns. 

And if they do it gives them a space to give themselves grace, because a lot of people struggle with giving themselves grace, with saying, it’s okay, that I’m challenged. It’s okay that I may be struggling. It’s okay that I’m not there yet. 

And during this time that I spent with my clients, we’re able to unearth that we’re able to unpack it, and then we’re able to allow them to grow out of that and build on what they have learned. So we spent twelve weeks together, we go through healing, setting healthy boundaries. We go through learning how to receive, learning how to ask for help, learning how to release the people-pleasing, learning how to release the idea of having to save others. Because the only person you got to save is you. 

And then that allows us to become more confident, be more consistent, unleash our authentic selves, and feel like we’re living the life we desire. 

And if you’re watching this and you’re like, yo, this is for me, like I am the type of woman that’s ready to do that. If you’re a leader, a coach, a consultant. And you feel like you are done living this life, playing these kinds of games. And you want to have a system that you can lean on when triggering emotions show up, so that you can show up as the best version of yourself, so that you can continue to live a life where you feel joy, where you feel enthusiastic, a life that you’re grateful to wake up to. 

If you feel like any of that, then I would like to invite you to join me. I would like to invite you to apply to be a part of the self-trust system, because right now I’ve got a few spots open. I think we got three spots open, three spots open. And one of them is for you. 

And I want you to be a part of this community because when people come to my space, they get transformed. I’m not even playing with you. Like if you come to my space, your life is going to change. You’re going to meet a version of you that you’ve been waiting to meet for a long time. And I want you to meet her. Okay? So the investment to work with me right now is think it’s three payments of $3,500 or $9,000. 

So if you are ready to make that investment and you feel called to do it, the time is now. I’m going to drop a link for you in the comments where you can submit an application to work with me, or you can send me a private message to work with me. Just let me know, “Nory I’m interested, Nory I’m ready.” 

And we’re gonna make this happen for you because I want you to trust yourself with everything you got. The world is going to be much better by you doing that. Because when you trust yourself, you begin to ignite a chain reaction of self-trust within people around you and people that were at first challenged by your transformation. They begin to wonder how they can experience that transformation too. 

I think there’s a quote that says, at first they ask you why, and then they ask you how or something like that. I might be messing that up. Let me know the quote in the comments. But that’s what happens when you begin to trust yourself. And imagine if you were able to channel all the trust you have into other people, into you. All the belief that you have into other people, into you, imagine how your life will be different. 

I know how different your life can be. And I’m here to support you as you make that happen. I’m here to support you as you step into your next level, as you step into your next season. And as you do it with ease and with joy, knowing that you are deserving of everything that’s there in your vision board. Okay? 

So, thank you for joining me today. If you have any questions, drop them in the comments. 

If you’re ready to make this transition and be a part of the self-trust system, I got a spot for you—you better claim it! And I look forward to seeing you in our next video. Hasta luego!

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